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Subject: BS: Breton Cap a bit down From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 10:52 AM Well it looks like herself and myself are at the trial separation time. Still in the same house but different rooms and all that sort of baggage. Don't know what is going to happen in the long term but things don't look too promising at the moment. Don't expect any of my mates around here to be able to solve the problems but needed to tell someone. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Cats Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:01 AM I know we are at the other side of the country to you but we are thinking of you and if you need a break contact us. Jon & Kathy |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:10 AM Thanks Kathy, I really could use a few days away from it all but need I need to stay working. I need the money. E and I are still going to go to the festivals for the rest of this year and are actually going over to spend a few days with Gervase and Mary Jane over on the far side of Wales after Easter and seeing Hils and some other Miskin in exile people over the Bank Holiday. See you at Sidders if not before. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: John MacKenzie Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:21 AM Sorry to hear your news Dave, I've been through it too so know where you are. It WILL get better I promise. ♫ For time it is a precious thing ♫ Giok |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:27 AM Thanks Giok, I'm sure you're right. Just got to get through it one way or another. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Herga Kitty Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:49 AM Dave - I expect to see you (both) at the end of the month, in Lewes. Have PM'd you a virtual hug, but here's another one anyway... Kitty xxx |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Richard Bridge Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:53 AM Very sorry to hear it. If you need a spare bed at any of the festivals I am at, there are two bunks in my caravan (see, Vanwatch is good for something) and one is most likely to be empty. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Cats Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:53 AM Dave - why don't you come down to the Fox and Hounds and stay on for a couple of days with us? |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Leadfingers Date: 01 Apr 07 - 11:54 AM Dave , As the Surfer said < "Lifes a beach!" |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:02 PM Kath that would have been a lovely idea but..... I've not got enough Hol leave left to take anymore time off work in May. As you may know I work for Brighton Festival and Dome and the festival runs from May 5th to 27th. I've already booked a few days over the second May Bank holiday for the Chippenham Festival. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:04 PM Terry Life's a beach and you sometimes step on a jelly fish. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: jacqui.c Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:13 PM Dave - I think a lot of us have been down this road. It helps to have somewhere to turn and the 'Cat is definitely a good place for that. All the best. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: JennyO Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:31 PM Sorry to hear that Dave. As your 2005 Secret Santa, it would have been nice to be able to give you everything you wish for - but these will have to do. {{{{HUGS}}}} from warm and sunny Oz! |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:32 PM Thanks Jacqui, I have seen Mudcat open up to other people in the past (no need to name them ). I just needed to clear my head by speaking to people rather more remote from the situation and, as I was hoping, positive thoughts seem to be out there. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:35 PM Thanks Jenny. I've still got the boomerang Secret Santa sent. I tried to throw it away but.......... Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Catherine Jayne Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:36 PM Sorry to hear this Dave. Time is a wonderful healer and hopefully you'll be able to work through it all Take care Khatt |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: JennyO Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:44 PM A little bit of Les Barker can't be a bad thing... I Don't Like My Boomerang - Les Barker I don't like my boomerang. I know what you're going to say: If you hate your boomerang so much Why don't you throw it away? That's all very well in theory. It may seem that simple to you. Why don't you throw your boomerang away? 'Cos I threw it away yesterday too. There are times when life is not easy. There are days when the future looks black. There are days when you throw your boomerang away. There are days when your boomerang comes back. I believe in predestination; My boomerang's future is clear. On the days that I throw my boomerang away It's predestination's back here. There are times it gets me down; Perhaps I shouldn't let it. What I can't understand is this: How did I ever get it? Sometimes, when in the front garden I throw it, then hurry in doors. Within half an hour, there's a ring on the bell And a little boy says: "Is this yours?" Once I got really angry. I taped some dynamite to it, And without really thinking things through, I lit the fuse and I threw it. With hindsight, this was an error. We learn lessons from life; I was taught it Is better to think before throwing your boomerang. Never think after you've caught it. I've resorted to desperate measures; Sometimes when I throw the stick, I try to move house before it comes back But you can't get a mortgage that quick. I had a Jack Russell terrier once; I used to call him Jack. I used to throw my boomerang for him. The stick used to bring the dog back. I've seen the sticker in car windows; It gets me right here, like a knife: A boomerang's not just for Christmas; A boomerang is for life. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 12:48 PM Yes Jenny, That was what was going through my mind. That and the old Charlie Drake song from all those years ago. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: JennyO Date: 01 Apr 07 - 01:02 PM Oh yeah! I know that one just about off by heart! *sings* Muh boomerang won't come back, Muh boomerang won't come back I've waved the thing all over the place, Practised till I was black in the face. Ah'm a big disgrace to the aborigine race, Muh boomerang won't come back.... |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: SussexCarole Date: 01 Apr 07 - 01:47 PM Dave We're so sorry to hear this news. E mail on the way Carole & Andrew xx |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Jock O' Dreams Date: 01 Apr 07 - 02:08 PM Hi Dave, Sometimes relationships go through rough spells as Annie and I well know!! but hang in there and work it through because it is worth it. We are thinking of you both and hope to see the pair of you belting out the songs somewhere on the Folk roundabout. Love Jim and Annie |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: mg Date: 01 Apr 07 - 02:25 PM Bad news... If it is truly over do you have to stay in the same house? Are there children? Legal rights perhaps to the house if one moves out? Barring serious other considerations, it would probably be easier for both of you to physically separate..it would be too painful for one party and probably too annoying for the other to be in close quarters under those circumstances. mg |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Mrs.Duck Date: 01 Apr 07 - 02:50 PM Sorry to hear this, Dave. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Bonecruncher Date: 01 Apr 07 - 04:13 PM Sorry to hear your news, Dave. Love to both of you (which I am sure you pass on the other half) and hope to see you at Chippenham. If you should need a bed while you are there you may have the use of my house (fairly local to Chippenham) or the spare bunk in my 'van. Many thanks to you for the kind messages you sent while I was "under the knife". Colyn. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 06:00 PM Colyn Thanks for the offer. You'm is a mate. Us'll see what transpires. But things is more or less organises as far as Chippers is concerned Thanks for your thoughts Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 06:43 PM |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 06:48 PM mg Does I know ee? Thanx anyway e |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: SINSULL Date: 01 Apr 07 - 06:57 PM If you want your boomerang to come back, first you've got to throw it... Come across the pond and catch Maine in spring (read Mud Season). A bed, a meal and friends. SINS |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 07:07 PM Jenny O Luvs fer that. Us is on t'same wavelength. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 07:09 PM SINS If only time and money would allow!!! Luvs yer anyway Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 07:13 PM Jane (Mrs Duck) Yuo'm n'Geoff is also mates and I luv ee for it. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 01 Apr 07 - 07:17 PM Khatt I've heard 'bout things in your part of world too. Hugs 'n stuff too. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: JennyO Date: 01 Apr 07 - 10:04 PM Oh yeah, never thought of that. Daddy will be pleased. Must 'ave a go - excuse me. Now, slowly back..... and - THROW! OH MAH GAWD. I 'IT THE FLYIN' DOCTOR!!!!!! |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Liz the Squeak Date: 02 Apr 07 - 03:11 AM Take care, both of you... hugs and wossnames from here. If either of you need a bed in London, you're welcome here. LTS |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: MBSLynne Date: 02 Apr 07 - 03:14 AM (((((((((((((((Dave))))))))))))))))))))))) I hate it when I see friends splitting up. Lots of thoughts and folkie support Love Lynne |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: GUEST,Elizabeth Date: 02 Apr 07 - 06:46 AM I've just realised this thread is here... I must confess, as Dave's far too nice to say so, that I'm the one that done the dirty and Dave is the innocent and suprised party. Thank you all and much love for messages of support. You're all stars. Love, Elizabeth |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: My guru always said Date: 02 Apr 07 - 07:13 AM Dave - I think mg is Mary Garvey. So sorry to hear about this Dave, and you too Elizabeth, these things happen and it is usually very difficult as we all know. You're both fine people and I really hope that you'll be able to stay good friends with each other when you've got yourselves sorted out. See you both at the weekend for lots of hugs! Sending positive thoughts to you both! |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: MBSLynne Date: 02 Apr 07 - 09:45 AM Well hugs to you too Elizabeth. These things are always difficult for both parties no matter who is the instigator. Love Lynne |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Morticia Date: 02 Apr 07 - 01:11 PM My love to you both and if there is anything we can do, yell out. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Dave Earl Date: 02 Apr 07 - 01:16 PM Thanks Terri See you at a festival somewhere soon. Dave |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: vectis Date: 02 Apr 07 - 08:13 PM Oh! Bummm! Hugs to both of you. I hope that things get sorted soon. If I can do anything just give me a ring and I will help if I can. mary |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Schantieman Date: 03 Apr 07 - 07:22 AM Best wishes to both of you Dave. I know it's no fun, but I hope you can stay friends. Steve |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: MBSLynne Date: 03 Apr 07 - 07:46 AM Or perhaps become friends again. Being friends is usually pretty difficult while the emotions are running high. It's when they settle down again later that friendship can be resumed I find Love Lynne |
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Subject: RE: BS: Breton Cap a bit down at the moment. From: Essex Girl Date: 03 Apr 07 - 08:54 AM Try to work it through if you can,keep up the dialogue. Best wishes to you both. See you at Sidmouth. Love Linda |
